style to me though is confidence. style is originality. you have confidence in your originality. you believe in the things that you do. i live by faith in myself. i have faith that what i do (or wear) is what makes me happy. if i'm not happy im not confident. if i'm not confident then i'm not exuding any form of style.
Style to me: embracing beauty in any way imaginable. ESPECIALLY the unorthodox. You have style if you do/wear/say/act how you want & pull it off with confidence and grace. Its effortless, just BE. Be stylish.